My Life---Oct. 19, 2009

I've played and debated and thought and sought out advice on this blog for many days now and even considered not writing it but that's not me....... this is what I do

I'm in a fairly new relationship even thought John and I have been friends for a little while, I've also made some decisions and have chosen to live a different life style than I have before .......

Seems these decisions have given some of you cause to think you must warn me, you must use my wall as a means to have a dig at John , you must attack the life style I have chosen to lead now.. All of this is done of course because you *care & concern* about me ....

So on that note I have a few things to say about this so called care of yours and there are several of you but you know if I'm talkin to you or not.......

It's not care or concern for me when I've not heard from you in years except the occasionally fwd or app invite here.....

It's not care or concern for me when you post such garbage on my wall for all my family and friends to see....

It's not care and concern for me when you never consider the feelings of my children who are on here and see all that is posted to my wall......

It's not care and concern for me to use my wall to snap off on some one on my friends list, breakups happen and ppl chose sides, but I didn't cause the breakup nor is my wall the place to offer your opinions on it .......

It's not care and concern for me to issue your opinions unsolicited about the life I've chosen for myself or my relationship all over my wall.......If i want advice I WILL ask for it , if you truly have a real concern and would like to talk to me , no problem but email me, call me or txt it ....... don't poat it on my wall .....

But mostly it's NOT care and concern for me to bash someone I LOVE openly on my wall........ NOT now NOT ever will this be ok with me...... I don't ask anyone to like my life or John..... but RESPECT it

I'm 37 years old and my kids are all but grown, I've raised 3 wonderful, smart , caring children ; I work hard and the time in my life has come for me to play even harder..... and I'm lovin it. I love John as well ... deal with it , or kindly keep the snide comments to yourself as they are not welcome nor are they appreciated. Absolutely NOTHING in this world hurts me more than to see those I care about hurt....... I've cut ppl out of my life for it before don't ask me to do it again because I promise you...... IF you asl YOU will be the loser......

Don't like my life style -- no problem
Don't like John-- no problem

But respect that it's MY life and i do like it and I LOVE John and it wll be all good. If you can't do that then we have a problem.

For those that have spoken with me pvtly and with true concern .... thank you for your time , your advice and your support in remainin true to me and our friendships , regardless !!!!!! It's greatly appreciated and you are all loved so very much !!!!!!

John, baby , KNOW I love you....... nothin and no one can say or do anythin to change that...... and everyone that truly cares and is concerned for us, our feelings, our friends and family and mostly our children .... will support us as we continue to explore our relationship and grow as a couple......

Hugs and Love Always
       Bytch !!!!!!!!